Burns Coaches
It's Clear that We Can Do Better by Building a Solid Foundation
Like all systems evolving with innovation, we need a new approach for our relationships. As a transformative relationship coach, I've witnessed the challenges and triumphs that couples and singles face in their quest for meaningful connections. Recent statistics have illuminated the state of relationships, underscoring the urgent need for a relationship revolution.
Note: These stats are not meant to discourage you. Our relationship skills need an upgrade, and that's not a problem—it's an opportunity. It's time for the next level in relationships, and considering that the quality of your relationships determines the quality of your life, it's worth the consideration.
The State of Modern Relationships
Divorce Rate: Approximately 50% of first marriages end in divorce, with even higher rates for subsequent marriages - up to 70%.
Satisfaction Levels: Only about 50% of couples report satisfaction in their long-term relationships. Many stay in relationships for reasons other than love; fear of being alone, fear of change.
Top Reasons for Divorce: Lack of commitment, infidelity, and excessive conflict are the primary culprits.
Pandemic Impact: The COVID-19 pandemic has exacerbated stress and decreased satisfaction for 31% of couples.
Online Dating: Around 40% of new relationships now begin online.
Marriage Rates: There has been a steady decline in marriage rates, with only 6.1 marriages per 1,000 people in 2022.
Cohabitation Before Marriage: Approximately 70% of couples live together before marriage.
Communication Issues: A staggering 65% of couples struggle with communication.
Social Media's Impact: About 25% of couples feel that social media negatively affects their relationship.
Intimacy Matters: 40% of couples are dissatisfied with their intimacy and sexual connection.
Loneliness: Surprisingly, 60% of those suffering from loneliness are living with their spouse.
Challenges for Professional Singles
Work-Life Balance: Around 60% of professionals find balancing work and personal life a significant challenge.
Online Dating Usage: About 40% of single professionals turn to online dating due to time constraints. Many express mixed feelings about their experiences. Issues such as lack of meaningful connections, misrepresentation, and the overwhelming nature of swiping and messaging can contribute a superficial experience.
Long Working Hours: Nearly 50% of professionals work over 50 hours per week.
Prioritizing Career Over Relationships: Approximately 30% of single professionals prioritize their careers, often delaying serious relationships.
Career Influence on Relationships: Around 70% of professionals admit that their career choices have impacted their relationship decisions.
Delayed Marriage: Many professionals are choosing to marry in their late 30s or early 40s after establishing their careers.
Relationship Satisfaction: Only 40% of single professionals are satisfied with their current relationship status.
Workplace Relationships: About 20% of professionals have had a romantic relationship with a coworker.
Time Allocation: Single professionals dedicate only 10-15% of their weekly time to dating and social activities.
Impact of Stress: Over 60% of professionals report that work-related stress negatively affects their personal relationships.
A Call to Action
These statistics are not just numbers; they're a call for action. They underscore the importance of nurturing our relationships and striving for growth and connection. I believe that exceptional relationships are not just possible; they're within reach.
Introducing "The Path to Exceptional Relationships" Coaching Program
This is precisely why I created "The Path to Exceptional Relationships," a 9-week coaching program designed to help singles and couples build a solid foundation for thriving relationships. Whether you're a busy professional struggling to balance work and love or a couple seeking to reignite the spark, this program is tailored to address the core issues and equip you with the tools needed for lasting connection and growth.
Embark on the Journey
Are you ready to transform your relationship? To move beyond the statistics and create a thriving, fulfilling partnership?
Soon, there will be openings in my schedule to work with singles and couples. First, I would like to speak with you about your relationship aspirations.
Book a free, no-obligation 30-minute relationship clarity session and add your name to the waitlist. I will let you know as soon as a space becomes available.
In the meantime, you’ll find many resources on the homepage of my website at www.burnscoach.com including:
· Relationship Self-Assessment
· The Blueprint of Power Couples
· 4 Short Videos Explaining the Path to Exceptional Relationships
· Insight Filled Blog Posts
To Your Brilliant Future,
Michelle
Transformative Coaching, since 2001
I'm the Author
Michelle Burns
Welcome to The Presence Perspective, where we explore the transformative power of presence in every aspect of life—especially relationships.
With a rich background in coaching, personal development, and leadership, I’ve seen firsthand how most relationship struggles aren't about what's broken but about what's missing: essential skills.
Developing these relationships skills directly impacts the quality of our relationships and the quality of our lives.
Through this blog, I invite you to explore the transformative power of being fully present and discover how it can lead to deeper connections, greater fulfillment, and a more vibrant life.
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