Michelle Burns Coach
Your Nervous System is the Foundation of Your Success
Understanding the Nervous System
The nervous system is like your body’s electrical grid; constantly sending and receiving messages that keep you functioning. Whether you're walking, talking, solving problems, or reacting to stress, it’s all driven by your nervous system.
What Makes Up the Nervous System?
The main components include:
The brain: Your command center.
The spinal cord: The main pathway connecting the brain to the rest of the body.
Nerves: Electrical wires that run throughout your body, carrying messages.
How It Works
Imagine an endless group chat between your brain and body parts. Every breath, every blink, every emotion you feel; it’s all part of this intricate messaging system. Electrical impulses shoot from your brain through your spinal cord to your muscles and organs, then bounce back with updates.
Why It Matters
Because it runs everything. From heart rate to digestion, from mood to memory. A miscommunication in this system can throw your entire life off balance: mentally, emotionally, physically and spiritually.
What Happens When the Nervous System Fails?
Physical Effects
When even one part of the nervous system misfires, you can struggle to move, speak, breathe, or even swallow properly. Chronic pain, numbness, headaches, and fatigue often show up.
Cognitive and Emotional Effects
It can also cloud your thinking, affect your memory, and destabilize your emotions. You might find yourself anxious for no reason, emotionally reactive, or completely shut down.
Long-Term Consequences
Left untreated, nervous system dysregulation can lead to autoimmune disorders, burnout, anxiety, depression, and other chronic conditions.
The Hidden Causes of Nervous System Dysregulation
Trauma and Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACEs)
Early trauma doesn’t just leave emotional scars, it wires your brain to perceive the world as unsafe. Even subtle forms of neglect or inconsistent caregiving can dysregulate your system.
Childhood Trauma: Abuse, neglect, or witnessing violence can cause lifelong nervous system disruptions.
Coping Mechanisms: Shutting down emotionally or becoming a people-pleaser are survival tactics your nervous system uses to keep you safe.
Chronic Stress
Stress that doesn’t let up: whether it’s work, money, or toxic relationships; keeps your system in a constant state of “fight or flight.”
Modern Triggers: Constant notifications, deadlines, headlines, traffic, and even social media contribute to ongoing nervous system strain.
System Imbalance: When the sympathetic (fight/flight) system dominates, the parasympathetic (rest/digest) gets sidelined.
Lifestyle Choices
Poor Diet: Lack of key nutrients like B12, magnesium, or omega-3s messes with nerve function.
No Exercise: Your body needs movement to release built-up stress.
Lack of Sleep: Sleep is when your nervous system resets. No sleep? No reset.
Medical and Neurological Factors
Neurological disorders: Conditions like epilepsy or MS can cause dysregulation.
Toxic exposure: Environmental toxins and infections disrupt healthy nerve function.
Hormonal shifts: Cortisol, adrenaline, and thyroid hormones all influence regulation.
How to Know if Your Nervous System is Dysregulated?
You’re tired but wired
Easily overwhelmed
Anxious or emotionally numb
Can’t focus or relax
Digestive issues, tight chest, or chronic pain
Feel stuck in survival mode, like you’re just getting through the day
Nervous System Regulation: Why It’s a Game-Changer
When your nervous system is calm, everything changes.
Stress Resilience. You bounce back quicker. Your body knows how to calm itself.
Emotional Regulation and Relationship Health. You're less reactive, more grounded, and capable of intimacy and trust.
Mental Clarity and Productivity. With a balanced nervous system, focus sharpens, sleep improves, and decision-making becomes easier.
Physical Health and Recovery. Immune function improves, inflammation lowers, and chronic symptoms often subside.
Goal Achievement and Motivation. You’re no longer derailed by stress. You move forward with intention.
Two Paths to the Solution.
1. The effective but time-consuming way OR
2. The simple, easy, instant and healthy way.
#1 The effective but time-consuming way. This will cost you time, effort, energy and if you want real results, commitment and consistency. It is worth it.
15 Powerful Techniques to Regulate Your Nervous System
1. Sleep Hygiene. Aim for 7-9 hours of uninterrupted sleep each night. It’s foundational.
2. Breathing Exercises. Practice deep belly breathing or the physiological sigh—two quick inhales, one long exhale—to reset your system.
3. Movement. Yoga, dancing, walking, cardio—just move. It burns off stress and recalibrates your system.
4. Cold Plunges or Sauna. Shocking your system with cold or heat can stimulate a positive reset.
5. Vagus Nerve Stimulation. Humming, chanting “OM,” or singing activates your parasympathetic nervous system.
6. Mindfulness and Meditation. Be still. Observe your thoughts. Let them float by.
7. Sensory Anchors. Smell something comforting. Use essential oils tied to positive memories.
8. Breaks from Tech. Step away from screens. Reconnect with the physical world.
9. Social Connection. Laughter, hugs, and time with friends release oxytocin, calming your system.
10. Healthy Diet. Eat whole foods, stay hydrated, reduce caffeine and sugar.
11. Reduce Alcohol. Alcohol slows nervous system communication and impairs sleep and regulation.
12. Weighted Blankets. Deep pressure soothes the body and signals safety.
13. Progressive Muscle Relaxation. Tense and release muscle groups to release stored tension.
14. Boundaries and Structure. Say no. Set work hours. Create daily routines that offer stability.
15. Healing Trauma. If trauma is at the root, consider booking a session, I can help you work through it with nervous system-based therapies.
#2 The Simple, Easy and Healthy Way. How Super Patch Supports a Regulated Nervous System. This will cost you $60 per month for 30 patches. Peel, Stick, Live Better. 100% drug free. No side effects.
In the search for drug-free ways to support nervous system health, Super Patch offers a ground-breaking, non-invasive solution. Using proprietary neurotech through tactile patterns embedded in a wearable patch, Super Patch interacts directly with your nervous system, no supplements, no stimulants, no chemicals.
How It Works
Super Patch technology activates specific neuroreceptors in your skin, which then send signals to your brain stem. These signals help regulate how your nervous system processes stress, balance, energy, and pain; essentially creating a more resilient, responsive baseline.
Think of it like giving your nervous system a set of upgraded instructions; guidance that helps it work more efficiently and stay calm under pressure.
Key Nervous System Benefits of Super Patch
Improves Balance and Coordination: By stimulating proprioceptive pathways, Super Patch helps you feel more grounded and steadier.
Reduces Perceived Stress: Users report a noticeable shift into calm, focused states; even in high-pressure environments.
Boosts Physical Performance: Many active professionals experience greater strength, stamina, and recovery, thanks to enhanced neural efficiency.
Enhances Mood and Focus: The nervous system affects everything from emotional regulation to cognitive clarity. Super Patch calms the mental chatter and heightens awareness.
How a Regulated Nervous System Fuels Success
Performance at Work. You’re more focused, creative, and productive.
Resilience in Relationships. You don’t spiral. You stay steady and grounded.
Emotional Freedom. You break free from constant fear and fight-or-flight patterns.
Physical and Sport Performance. Your nervous system is the control center for every physical action: balance, coordination, reaction time, strength, and stamina all depend on how well it’s functioning. When your nervous system is dysregulated, your body becomes less responsive, slower to recover, and more prone to injury. But when it’s regulated, you move with greater ease, agility, and precision.
Athletes and active individuals often report sharper reflexes, improved endurance, and a heightened sense of body awareness when their nervous systems are in balance. Whether you're playing a sport, working out, or just living an active life, nervous system regulation can significantly boost your performance and recovery. It’s the edge that helps you not just train harder, but smarter.
Final Thoughts: Your Body is Talking, Are You Listening?
Your nervous system is not just a biological system; it's your internal compass. When it’s regulated, you feel safe, alive, and fully capable of showing up for life. The key to success isn’t hustling harder, it’s healing deeper. When your nervous system is calm and connected, you become unstoppable.
Why It Matters
In today’s fast-paced, high-stress world, our nervous systems are constantly overstimulated. Super Patch provides a wearable form of support that can help bring your body back into balance, without relying on external substances or willpower alone. It complements other regulation practices like breathwork, movement, and meditation by giving your nervous system a consistent, subtle boost throughout the day.
Whether you’re an athlete, executive, caregiver, or creative, having a tool that helps your nervous system stay balanced can be a game-changer.
Final Note from a Holistic Performance Coach
As a Holistic Performance Coach, I’ve spent years teaching my clients simple, effective practices to help regulate their nervous systems: breathwork, movement, mindset shifts, emotional processing, yoga, meditation, sensory resets, and more. They work beautifully.
But here’s what I’ve noticed: even with the best intentions, people get busy. Life happens. The practices get pushed aside. And I get it, everyone’s juggling a lot. In those moments of overwhelm, most people reach for something fast: a drink, a pill, a vape, comfort food, or endless scrolling. But those quick fixes come with a cost; they may offer short-term relief, but the long-term consequences to your health and nervous system can be serious.
That’s why I’m so passionate about Super Patch. It’s the only instant fix I’ve found that supports your nervous system with no side effects and no drugs.
Super Patch meets your body where it’s at, quietly upgrading how your nervous system functions behind the scenes. It helps you stay balanced, calm, and focused throughout your day so you can get back to being your best self without relying on substances or distractions.
This is support that sticks, with results that last.
For Holistic Health Practitioners: A Powerful Addition to Your Practice
If you're a Holistic Health Practitioner, you already know how vital nervous system regulation is to lasting health and transformation. Super Patch doesn’t replace the tools you use, it enhances them. Whether you offer coaching, acupuncture, massage therapy, chiropractic care, yoga, or nutrition, Super Patch supports the body’s natural regulatory systems and helps your clients experience quicker, deeper, and more sustainable results. It integrates effortlessly into your existing practice: no equipment, no supplements, no fuss. Just results.
It’s a simple, science-backed addition that aligns with your values and expands your impact. If you're looking for a way to elevate client outcomes, increase referrals, and stand out as a leader in the holistic space, Super Patch is the next step.
I’m happy to tell you more and answer any of your questions. Book a time now:
Frequently Asked Questions
What are signs that my nervous system is out of balance?
Common signs include chronic fatigue, anxiety, irritability, brain fog, emotional numbness, digestive issues, or feeling stuck in survival mode.
How long does it take to regulate the nervous system?
It depends on your history and commitment to healing practices. Many notice shifts within weeks, but deep healing may take months.
Can a dysregulated nervous system cause anxiety or depression?
Yes. Nervous system dysregulation is often at the root of mental health struggles like anxiety, depression, and PTSD.
What is the vagus nerve and why is it important?
The vagus nerve is a key player in calming your system. Activating it helps shift you from fight-or-flight into rest-and-digest mode.
Do I need to see a doctor or therapist to heal my nervous system?
Not always, but professional support can help, especially if trauma or neurological issues are involved.
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Michelle Burns
Welcome to The Presence Perspective, where we explore the transformative power of presence in every aspect of life—especially relationships.
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